34 He called the crowd
with his disciples, and said to them, ‘If any want to become my
followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow
me.
35For those who want to save their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake, and for the sake of the gospel, will save it. --Mark 8:34-35
It is quite hard to believe that this July, I will be celebrating 15 years of ordained ministry. Lots has changed in that 15 years.
One thing that hasn't is a repeated mantra that I have heard over and over and over again at conferences, in sermons, and read in books:
The Church must change, or it will die!!!
Now, for the record, I once believed this. I once believed it down to my very core. I believed that the Church must always be reforming--and to an extent, it must always re-form. But re-forming does not mean changing. It does not mean examining our core beliefs and understanding and changing them to fit a culture or a context which has trouble understanding those beliefs and concepts. There is a reason there is such a thing as apologetics!!!
Reforming, at least in the Church, is a process of going backward to go forward. It is a process of returning to the basics of the Christian faith which propelled it forward in the ancient world. It is a process of returning to the bedrock foundation of the Christian faith: we are saved by grace through faith in Christ Jesus who lived the life we should live and died the death we deserved to reconcile us unto God.
When this core statement, the Gospel, grasps the heart and the heart grasps it changes you to your very core and being. For many years, I had heard the Gospel, but I never understood it. I figured Christianity was best served by focusing on the Law--the doing; particularly loving God and loving one's neighbor. How simple was that? It should be relatively easy for everyone to agree upon that? Right?
But it isn't. Not in the least. For loving God and loving the neighbor, while we can agree on the basics, is not easily fleshed out. It is not easily applied, and it fails to address what is really wrong with the human heart.
For while I might desire to love God and love my neighbor, more oftentimes than not, my heart centers on myself. I only love God and love my neighbor in so far as they help me accomplish my goals and my desires. Unless my heart is deeply affected or moved by the plight of another, I remain content to keep my business as usual approach to life. And, here is the kicker, oftentimes I engage in loving God and loving my neighbor because "it makes me feel good." It becomes all about me.
Most of the time, when we examine ourselves, it indeed becomes all about us. It becomes all about what we want and we desire. It becomes about how something makes me feel or about how something works to my advantage.
Institutions are no different. They may begin with all sorts of lofty goals and ideals. They may begin with an outward focus, but before long institutional preservation becomes the order of the day. This is especially true of the Church. We spend a lot of time, effort and energy trying to get people to fall in love with the Church--of whatever denomination we are a part; of whatever congregation we are a part. And if things start going south, we proclaim: the Church must change or die! What is at the heart of this statement? Self-preservation.
"For those who want to save their life..."
Yes, Jesus' teaching applies to the Church as well. If we are interested in saving ourselves; if we are interested in preserving our institutions; if we are changing so that we don't die, we will do exactly that. We will die. A slow and painful death.
But there is a remedy.
"Those who lose their life for my sake, and for the sake of the gospel, will save it."
Die now. Die to self. Die to what we want and what we think will save us. Quit trying to focus on making people fall in love with us, and work to get people to fall in love with Jesus and His saving action. Reform. Return to the Gospel and let it change the hearts and minds of those who hear it proclaimed.
The Church doesn't need to change.
It needs to die.
A Lutheran preacher in rural Texas examines the Christian faith and life in general.
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Wednesday, February 18, 2015
Tuesday, February 3, 2015
Setting Up a Date with Jesus
I remember a Synod Assembly I attended several years ago. The presiding bishop of the ELCA was in attendance, and he was there to keynote as well as preside over the election of a new bishop. Well I remember his address to the gathered.
In the midst of his address, he asked us to turn to our neighbor and answer the question, "Why should I come to your congregation?"
The lady next to me said, "We are a warm and welcoming congregation who will accept you and treat you with kindness."
I responded, "Our congregation truly cares about our community. We have been actively involved in ministering to our neighbors by building a house for a needy family, paying electric bills and groceries, and making a difference in people's lives."
When the bishop took the stage again, he said, "Statistics show that 90% of you answered, 'You should come to our church because we are warm and welcoming and friendly.' Very few of you will talk about anything your church is actually doing to help your community."
Deep within I had a wellspring of pride. Yeah, our congregation is different. We are doing it right!
What an ass I was.
Not that being warm and welcoming and friendly isn't important--it is.
Not that doing good things in your community and making a difference isn't important--it is.
But these are not what our congregations should be about. These are not the things which should set us apart. Neither is saying, "We are welcoming of all people." or "We have a great music/youth/Senior Citizen/or what have you program." or "We get along well with each other." or "We work for peace and justice throughout the world."
These are all fine and dandy, but they are all, and I mean all, focused on trying to get people to like us; to be a part of us; to bolster our congregation's attendance; to make people fall in love with our congregation or our denomination.
As such, they fall far, far short of the reality of the Christian faith. For a congregation should not try to get people to fall in love with the church. A pastor should not try to get people to fall in love with him/her. We should and must work to get people to fall in love with Jesus.
At a recent theological conference, I looked around the room at my colleagues. I noted how very different we are. I noted how vastly different our theologies were. In talking to a higher up in synodical structures, I asked, "If you asked the people in there, 'what is the Gospel?' how many different definitions do you think you would get?" Her answer, "At least 200." And we would fight about whose definition is right.
"Look at us!" I said. "What person in his right mind would fall in love with us?!" We who are broken, divided, burned out, tired, floundering along without an identity or a shared understanding of the Gospel. We who have been caught up in the anxiety of a changing world in which we no longer have a privileged position. We who wring our hands as worship attendance drops, offerings disappear, and congregations close. We who are focused on survival; who set goals yet never meet them; who talk about having peace in our hearts yet show forth worry and anxiety.
We cannot try to get people to like or fall in love with us. It won't work. Look at us.
Which is why we must get people to look at Jesus. We must get people to hear the news of what He has done in reconciling the world unto God. We must get people to understand the radical nature of the Gospel (more on defining this later)--that God/Jesus died for us while we were still sinners; living the life we were supposed to live and dying the death we deserved.
What we do takes a back seat to what God has already done through Jesus! (Oh, all those other things begin happening, but only after what God has done becomes the primary focus and proclamation of the Church!)
All of our worship. All of our activities. All of our spending. All of our programming should be an attempt to get people introduced to Jesus. Until we make this our primary focus, we will continue to see decline and decay. For churches do not change people. Jesus does.
When is the last time you tried to set someone up on a date with Jesus?
If you'd like to know more about Him, just contact me. I will be more than happy to introduce you.
In the midst of his address, he asked us to turn to our neighbor and answer the question, "Why should I come to your congregation?"
The lady next to me said, "We are a warm and welcoming congregation who will accept you and treat you with kindness."
I responded, "Our congregation truly cares about our community. We have been actively involved in ministering to our neighbors by building a house for a needy family, paying electric bills and groceries, and making a difference in people's lives."
When the bishop took the stage again, he said, "Statistics show that 90% of you answered, 'You should come to our church because we are warm and welcoming and friendly.' Very few of you will talk about anything your church is actually doing to help your community."
Deep within I had a wellspring of pride. Yeah, our congregation is different. We are doing it right!
What an ass I was.
Not that being warm and welcoming and friendly isn't important--it is.
Not that doing good things in your community and making a difference isn't important--it is.
But these are not what our congregations should be about. These are not the things which should set us apart. Neither is saying, "We are welcoming of all people." or "We have a great music/youth/Senior Citizen/or what have you program." or "We get along well with each other." or "We work for peace and justice throughout the world."
These are all fine and dandy, but they are all, and I mean all, focused on trying to get people to like us; to be a part of us; to bolster our congregation's attendance; to make people fall in love with our congregation or our denomination.
As such, they fall far, far short of the reality of the Christian faith. For a congregation should not try to get people to fall in love with the church. A pastor should not try to get people to fall in love with him/her. We should and must work to get people to fall in love with Jesus.
At a recent theological conference, I looked around the room at my colleagues. I noted how very different we are. I noted how vastly different our theologies were. In talking to a higher up in synodical structures, I asked, "If you asked the people in there, 'what is the Gospel?' how many different definitions do you think you would get?" Her answer, "At least 200." And we would fight about whose definition is right.
"Look at us!" I said. "What person in his right mind would fall in love with us?!" We who are broken, divided, burned out, tired, floundering along without an identity or a shared understanding of the Gospel. We who have been caught up in the anxiety of a changing world in which we no longer have a privileged position. We who wring our hands as worship attendance drops, offerings disappear, and congregations close. We who are focused on survival; who set goals yet never meet them; who talk about having peace in our hearts yet show forth worry and anxiety.
We cannot try to get people to like or fall in love with us. It won't work. Look at us.
Which is why we must get people to look at Jesus. We must get people to hear the news of what He has done in reconciling the world unto God. We must get people to understand the radical nature of the Gospel (more on defining this later)--that God/Jesus died for us while we were still sinners; living the life we were supposed to live and dying the death we deserved.
What we do takes a back seat to what God has already done through Jesus! (Oh, all those other things begin happening, but only after what God has done becomes the primary focus and proclamation of the Church!)
All of our worship. All of our activities. All of our spending. All of our programming should be an attempt to get people introduced to Jesus. Until we make this our primary focus, we will continue to see decline and decay. For churches do not change people. Jesus does.
When is the last time you tried to set someone up on a date with Jesus?
If you'd like to know more about Him, just contact me. I will be more than happy to introduce you.
Monday, December 15, 2014
Pointing to Jesus
Many moons ago, I sat down with a church call committee. In the midst of our visitation, I asked them, “What makes your church different than any other organization that seeks to help people? What makes you different than the Salvation Army, or the Rotary Club, or the Knights of Columbus? What sets you apart from all of these other groups that get together and do good things?”
There was silence around the table. No one had an answer.
Now, perhaps you do. Perhaps you know what sets a church apart from those other service organizations, but I don’t want you chiming in just yet. I mean, if you did, this sermon would practically be over and done with, and I don’t want folks to be disappointed with such a short sermon. :-) So, I want to take some time and think through this for a few moments. I want us to think about what might truly set us apart from other service organizations and why folks should consider joining a church as well as supporting service organizations.
And we will start in perhaps an interesting place–with the church’s shortcomings. Some folks might get a bit twitchy about this, and I understand. Usually, you want to talk about your strengths and minimize your weaknesses, but things work a little differently in the Christian faith. You might have figured that out a bit. In fact, St. Paul says this in 2 Corinthians chapter 12, “...But on my own behalf I will not boast, except of my weaknesses. [For] He (God) said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness.’ So, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.” Think about that for a few. It is a very interesting statement that Paul makes essentially saying that we Christians aren’t called to hide our weaknesses. We are to put them forward for a very particular reason–a reason I will talk about in a little while.
So, let’s talk about some of those shortcomings. Let’s begin with the economic shortfall. I mean, some of you are aware of those websites that rank charities. They base their judgements on how much money is actually spent on charitable functions and then how much goes toward overhead, maintenance, and salaries. The more money you spend on ministry, the higher your rank. Guess where most churches and congregations would actually fall? I mean, look at our own budget as a congregation. Yes, we do quite a bit through our community care fund and extra giving campaigns during the year, but what percentage of our budget goes to ministries outside of ourselves? What percentage is not spent on salaries, building maintenance, and supplies? Being generous, less than 10% of our budget is designated to be given away outside of ourselves. Where do you think that would rank on those charity websites? We definitely would not be getting five stars. In fact, there are many, many more charitable organizations that serve more people and have less overhead than the church. One could argue they do a much better job of it too especially in weeding out those who try to take advantage of the system. We are nowhere near the top when it comes to helping others.
Second shortcoming–we don’t do very well relationally either. I mean, there is nothing to distinguish us from any other social club where people have disagreements; where people get angry with one another; where people refuse to attend meetings because they don’t like what someone said or did; where people ignore each other; where people are content to stay within their own little group and refuse to seek out someone who is a stranger; where people have a difficult time welcoming new ideas and new thoughts–especially if that new person sat in my spot in my pew! In fact, there are many congregations where such things are worse than in other social and charitable organizations!!! Congregations are usually very, very tough places for an outsider to break into–even though we say we follow Jesus who tells us clearly to “Love one another for by this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” Congregations are oftentimes very tough places to find people who forgive one another. We allow squabbles and misunderstandings to fester and cause strife time and again.
Third shortcoming–we tend to hold our leaders to rigorous standards and expect them to be perfect because they “work for God”, but when they comment on our sinfulness, we are quick to say, “Who are they to tell us what is wrong. They put their pants on just like we do.” And those of us who are leaders oftentimes enjoy our elevated status until we realize we are broken and cannot live up to others’ expectations. And we then wonder why folks get angry with us when we try to let our hair down. In a word, I guess this shortcoming can be wrapped up in the words pride and hypocrisy. Too many times, we embody these words. It is quite unfortunate.
I could keep going with more shortcomings, but I won’t. I won’t because sermons aren’t meant for bashing what is wrong with the church and the world. Sermons aren’t meant for pointing fingers and spreading guilt. Sermons have a very different purpose–just like the church has a very different purpose. They each have a purpose which is embodied in the main figure of our Gospel lesson this morning: John the Baptist.
Hear once again what the Gospel writer John says about this figure of faith, “There was a man sent from God, whose name was John. 7He came as a witness to testify to the light, so that all might believe through him. 8He himself was not the light, but he came to testify to the light.”
Let’s stop right here. It shouldn’t be too hard to see what John the Baptist’s purpose was. John came to testify to Jesus. John came to point the way to Jesus. John was here not for John’s sake but for Jesus’ sake. The next few verses make this abundantly clear.
This is the testimony given by John when the Jews sent priests and
Levites from Jerusalem to ask him, ‘Who are you?’ 20He confessed and did not deny it, but confessed, ‘I am not the Messiah.’ 21And they asked him, ‘What then? Are you Elijah?’ He said, ‘I am not.’ ‘Are you the prophet?’ He answered, ‘No.’ 22Then they said to him, ‘Who are you? Let us have an answer for those who sent us. What do you say about yourself?’ 23He said, ‘I am the voice of one crying out in the wilderness, “Make straight the way of the Lord” ’, as the prophet Isaiah said. 24 Now they had been sent from the Pharisees. 25They asked him, ‘Why then are you baptizing if you are neither the Messiah, nor Elijah, nor the prophet?’ 26John answered them, ‘I baptize with water. Among you stands one whom you do not know, 27the one who is coming after me; I am not worthy to untie the thong of his sandal.’
It’s important to realize at this juncture just how influential John was at the time. For nearly 400 years, the Jewish people had waited for God to speak. For the past 400 years the people of Israel hadn’t seen a prophet and were mystified by God’s silence. Suddenly, John the Baptist appeared in what we might consider the armpit of the Judean countryside. He wasn’t preaching and teaching in the cities and towns; he was way out in the middle of nowhere, and people flocked to hear him preach. They recognized that something was going on here. They recognized that John met all the criteria of a prophet in his word, deed and power. God was finally speaking!! And of course, those in power wanted to check this out. They wanted to get the scoop themselves. They wanted to figure out just who this character was and how he was able to draw such crowds. And they tried to pin him down. Are you the Messiah? In the strongest possible terms, John answers, “I am not.” Well then are you one of the important folks of ages past? Are you Elijah? “No.” Are you the Prophet Moses spoke to us about. Again, “No.” Well then, for heaven’s sake, who are you?
“I am the one Isaiah speaks about. I am the one crying in the wilderness, ‘Make straight the pathway of the Lord.”
The Pharisees then ask John, “Well, then why are you baptizing? If you are not all these important people, then why are you engaging in something so important?”
John looks at them and says something very interesting, “ I baptize with water. Among you stands one whom you do not know, 27the one who is coming after me; I am not worthy to untie the thong of his sandal.”
This is an intriguing answer because it doesn’t seem to offer a compelling reason that John is baptizing. It doesn’t seem to give the Pharisees any satisfaction. John simply states what he is doing–baptizing with water, but then he basically says, “It’s not about me.” It’s not about me. It’s about the one who is standing among you who you do not know. It’s about the one coming after me–the one I am not worthy to untie the thong of his sandal.” This statement would have floored those around John. I mean, here was a man who was obviously a prophet–the first prophet that had been seen in Israel in 400 years; a prophet who was drawing people from all over the place, and this prophet says, “I am not worthy to be the slave with the lowest job on the social totem pole–the slave that is the lowest slave in the household. I am not worthy to even be this in His presence.”
A man of God; a prophet which Jesus later in the book of John says, “Up until this time there is none greater than John.” Think about that. A man who up until that time there was none greater considers himself unworthy to have the lowest job possible of untying Jesus’ sandals. But such is John’s resolve to point to Jesus. Such is John’s resolve to get out of the way so that the true light of the world can take center stage.
Why? Why would John go to such a length even though he is a prophet? Because John’s job pales in comparison to Jesus’. John’s job is tiny in the scope of things. Sure, John is preparing the way for Jesus, but it is Jesus who is coming to reconcile the world unto God. It is Jesus who is coming to be the sacrifice of atonement. It is Jesus who is God made flesh and dwelling among humanity. God made flesh. The perfect God who comes down to die for His creation. And no human is indeed worthy to untie the sandals of God. Every human is far too broken in comparison to God. Every human is too sinful in comparison to God’s perfection. The best one can do is point to the perfect when one is imperfect and admit, freely confess that we fall far short.
And it is this very thing which makes us different than any other charitable organization. It is this that makes us very different from any social organization. For we do not tout ourselves. We do not point at what we do. We do not say, “We are the best organization around. We do tons of good for our community and people. We get along perfectly without any problems, and we think exactly alike. We have the best preaching and the best worship music and the best programs.” No. We do not do those things at all, for we know that we are not the important ones here. For we, like John, know our imperfections. We know we are not great. We know we are not perfect. We know what we do pales in comparison to what Jesus has done. Our imperfect works are simply means by which we point to Jesus–for it is He who entered into our world to save it.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son so that all those who believe in Him should not perish but have eternal life. For God sent the Son into the world not to condemn the world, but that the world may be saved through Him.
And thus, we admit our shortcomings; we admit our imperfections; we show our brokenness, because Jesus came into the world to save broken people–people like you and me. Amen.
Monday, February 24, 2014
Striving for Perfection
As per the church-wide email I sent out this past week, I need your
help this morning as we begin into this sermon. I asked everyone to
consider what a perfect congregation might look like. What are its
character traits? What are the things it does? If you would, please
share some of your thoughts this morning. Those of you who did not get
this email, please, off the tops of your heads, share your thoughts
about what character traits the “perfect” church has and what things
such a church would do.
(Other notables from the first service responses: freedom to express one's view without judgement; people pray for each other [response from a 9 year old], people listen to the contributions of youth; outreach oriented; no quarreling)
O.K. So, these are the character traits and actions that those of us who are gathered here this morning see in a perfect congregation. There might be a few more that we could add, but let’s say that this indeed represents a perfect congregation. Now, let me ask you this: if this represents a perfect congregation, are there such things as perfect congregations around? Has there ever been a congregation which in actuality meets this vision?
Did you say no? I’d be flabbergasted if you said yes. You and I know there is no such thing as a perfect church or a perfect congregation. You and I know that sin pervades every aspect of our lives here on this planet and is inescapable. You and I know perfection is an unattainable reality until we pass the threshold of death. This is something we cognitively know. And so I must ask, if we know that we cannot reach perfection, why do we have a vision of it? Why does such a vision even exist? I mean if we can’t attain it, why even bother to think about it?
Last Sunday, our Gospel lesson began with these words from Matthew Chapter 5, Jesus said, “Unless your righteousness exceeds the righteousness of the scribes and the Pharisees, you will never enter the Kingdom of heaven.” Jesus then shows what it means to be more righteous than the scribes and the Pharisees. “You have heard it said to those of ancient times, you shall not murder. But I tell you if you are angry with a brother or sister, you are liable to judgment...You have heard it said to those of ancient times you shall not commit adultery. But I tell you if you look at a woman with lust in your heart you have committed adultery with her. You have heard it said you may write a woman a certificate of divorce. But I tell you if you divorce a woman you cause her to commit adultery and if you marry a woman who has been divorced you commit adultery. You have heard it said do not swear falsely, but I say do not swear at all, by heaven, by earth, or by Jerusalem. Let your word be yes, yes or no, no. Anything else comes from the evil one.”
Today, Jesus finishes out His sayings about true righteousness. It doesn’t get any easier. “You have heard it said an eye for an eye; a tooth for a tooth, but I say if someone strikes you on the right cheek, offer them your left also. Give your shirt as well as your cloak. Go the extra mile. You have heard it said you shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy, but I say love your enemy and bless those who persecute you so that you may be children of your Father in Heaven. Be perfect even as your heavenly Father is perfect.”
There you have it. This is true righteousness. Perfection. Just as God is perfect, you be perfect as well. This concludes Jesus’ vision of what it means to be truly righteous. As I said last time, true righteousness consists of having one’s heart in complete and total alignment with God’s heart. True righteousness is a heart condition for out of one’s heart comes anger and lust and failure to commit and fear of saying simply yes, yes or no, no. Out of the heart comes the desire for revenge and retribution. Out of the heart comes the desire to hate one’s enemy. Only a changed heart can defeat such things. Only a heart that is completely and totally oriented toward God and toward what is good can accomplish what Jesus says in this Sermon on the Mount.
And as I said last Sunday, so I say again. We cannot do it. We cannot willingly make ourselves good. There is a part of us which seeks our own self-interest. There is a part of us which continually seeks to take care of our own selves and those closest to us at the expense of others. There is a part of us which puts our own ego; our own righteousness over others and sees others as less than us. This part is constantly in rebellion against God and is constantly unleashing all those things Jesus warns us against.
You know this. You see it all the time. You participate in it. We all do. None of us can escape it. So if this is the case... If we know we continue to have these things come out of our hearts despite our best efforts... If indeed our righteousness cannot ever exceed the righteousness of the Scribes and the Pharisees and then therefore we cannot ever enter the Kingdom of heaven...then what’s the point? If we cannot achieve perfection, then why does Jesus set it as the goal?
I think there are at least two very good reasons for this. The first reason is one I have articulated before, and it comes from sports. The record holder for the highest career batting average is held by Ty Cobb. His career batting average was, get this .366. This meant, he got a hit generally 1 out of every three times he came to bat. Mind you, he didn’t hit a home run every time he came to the plate–even though that would be the ideal. He didn’t get on base every time he came to the plate to bat–even that would have been awesome. He didn’t even get on base half the time he came to bat. 36% of the time he came to bat, he got on base. And he’s in the baseball Hall of Fame. Can you imagine giving a child a pat on the back for making a 36 on a test? Yet, that’s what folks did with Ty Cobb. They applauded him for his efforts.
Now, do you think Ty became disgusted with the way he played by batting .366 for his career? Do you think he became disgusted with himself because he couldn’t hit a home run every time he came up to bat? Do you think he thought of quitting baseball because he wasn’t able to get on base every time he went to the plate to face a pitcher? No. Of course he didn’t because there was always the chance to hit the home run. There was always the chance of achieving a little piece of perfection. There was the goal, dangling out there begging to be reached. Generally, we can approach humankind in a couple of fashions. We can set the bar low, and believe me, folks will reach it and then stop. Or, we can set the bar high and just see how close people come to reaching it. One of these ways will unlock greater potential. One of them won’t. I’ll let you decide.
The other reason for setting perfection as a goal is a little different. It isn’t about unleashing potential–it’s about keeping a person humble. You see, if God is the only one who can be perfect, and perfection is the only way to achieve true righteousness–true holiness, then I can never be holy on my own. I can never be righteous on my own. I will never reach the pinnacle of perfection. Every time I try to reach it, I will fail. By my own efforts I can never achieve it. If I realize this, where does this leave me? Where do I end up if I know I cannot achieve what is required of me? Well, I will probably give up. If it is something I want badly enough, I will probably get depressed and angry. I will probably shake my fist and have tears well up in my eyes because I cannot get what I desire so badly. And then I resign myself to my failure. At this point, and only at this point am I willing to acknowledge my need for help. At this point, God usually reveals to us something wonderful:
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son so that all those who believe in Him should not perish but have eternal life. For God sent the Son into the world not to condemn the world, but so that the world may be saved through Him.
My achieving righteousness does not depend upon my work but on God’s work. My holiness does not come about because I am superhumanly good, but it comes about because Christ is superhumanly good. My salvation depends not on my righteousness but on Christ’s righteousness. Only in my humility can I recognize this.
When perfection is the goal, when the bar is set high, we reach for it and are challenged by it. When perfection is the goal, we are humbled by it and recognize our need for grace. We may never be perfect people. We may never be a perfect congregation, but we need that vision before us to challenge us, to humble us, and to help us live God’s Word daily. Amen.
Tuesday, October 22, 2013
Cliques in Church
A respected member of my congregation approached me a week or so ago. "Pastor," he said, "You need to say something or do a sermon about cliques."
I waited for further explanation.
"I've spoke to two people recently about coming to church. Both of them said the same thing. They both said they won't come to church because of the cliques in the church. Something needs to be done about that."
Perhaps so, but I am now a veteran when it comes to handling church dynamics. I've seen how more often than not, when you try to address something, the exact opposite happens. Harp on people for not coming to church, and church attendance drops. Harp on people for not giving enough or telling them to tithe 10% of their income, and offerings drop. Tell them they need to come to Sunday School, and they don't. Reverse psychology should be the order of the day, but if you go with the intent of trying to change things by doing the opposite, might you get figured out by doing that too? Isn't that a bit manipulative? Probably.
And that rightly leads to stagnation and a fear of even trying to address the issue. That's not good either.
So, the question is: how does one address the issue of cliques without trying to offer a mandate or tell everyone how they should act knowing they are liable to do the exact opposite?
Perhaps what follows is a feeble attempt:
I believe cliques are a part of the way the world and nature works. I think they are inescapable. I mean it. Kids form cliques in pre-school and school without any sort of guidance or compulsion. They just do it. In the animal kingdom, cliques are formed in most species. Fish swim in schools. Cattle gather in herds. Lions in prides, etc. etc. Each has its own hierarchy and social structure. Most become closed and only open up on special occasions.
These groups form for various reasons: protection, cooperation, feeding, and even socialization. In my estimation, this means cliques are neither good or bad, they just are.
Even in the church, we have our cliques. I think we'd like to pretend they don't exist, but they are there regardless. You have the women's group. The quilters. Men in mission. Youth group. Choir. Adult Bible study, and so on. These groups are organized based upon some commonality shared by all group members--gender, age, interest, ability. It's how we organize ourselves. Again, neither good or bad; cliques just are.
As I see it, the problem is not with cliques in and of themselves. It is when cliques become self-important, refuse to cooperate with others, and become closed that they become a problem.
St. Paul's analogy in 1 Corinthians 12 is instrumental in my opinion:
12 For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ. 13For in the one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves or free—and we were all made to drink of one Spirit. 14 Indeed, the body does not consist of one member but of many. 15If the foot were to say, ‘Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body’, that would not make it any less a part of the body. 16And if the ear were to say, ‘Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body’, that would not make it any less a part of the body. 17If the whole body were an eye, where would the hearing be? If the whole body were hearing, where would the sense of smell be? 18But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose. 19If all were a single member, where would the body be? 20As it is, there are many members, yet one body. 21The eye cannot say to the hand, ‘I have no need of you’, nor again the head to the feet, ‘I have no need of you.’ 22On the contrary, the members of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, 23and those members of the body that we think less honorable we clothe with greater honor, and our less respectable members are treated with greater respect; 24whereas our more respectable members do not need this. But God has so arranged the body, giving the greater honor to the inferior member, 25that there may be no dissension within the body, but the members may have the same care for one another. 26If one member suffers, all suffer together with it; if one member is honored, all rejoice together with it.
Paul does not encourage everyone to be alike. Far from it. In fact, Paul encourages the Church to honor it's differences, but with a very important caveat:
We are all one body.
Let that sink in for a moment. We are all one body. If various body parts begin warring against one another, really bad things happen. We actually know what that is called: cancer. With cancer, a group of cells thinks they are more important than the rest. They quit doing their job. They go rogue. They begin monopolizing resources. They begin feeding off the rest of the body. Eventually, if left unchecked, they kill the body.
In the Church, there is an antidote for such things--remembering who the head of the Church is and what He has called us to do. Remember, Paul is explicit in who he says the head of the Church is:
15 He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation; 16for in him all things in heaven and on earth were created, things visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or powers—all things have been created through him and for him. 17He himself is before all things, and in him all things hold together. 18He is the head of the body, the church; he is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, so that he might come to have first place in everything. --Colossians 1:15-18
To give this a very, local spin: St. John Lutheran Church of Cat Spring is actually ruled and governed by our head: Jesus Christ. We believe He has given us a vision and a mission: To Live God's Word Daily specifically by Actively reaching out as a strong Christian influence in our community by showing God's love through kindness, caring, and involvement with others inside and outside our community of faith.
All of our various parts theoretically should revolve around the Head and His instructions to us. Theoretically, everything we do should keep these things in mind. All of our various ministries and parts revolved around this vision and mission. If we should lose sight of this, then we face a war between the cliques. We face cliques vying for power and influence. Each clique's ministry becomes more important than the overall mission.
If you need evidence of this, look at our current political situation. Most representatives of our nation are there not to work for the good of their country, but for the good of their constituents. They are trying to get a piece of the pie for their district, their state, their area of representation instead of looking out for the good of the entire country. This leads to division and strife, something we are all too familiar with by reading our news papers and news feeds.
Should the Church reflect society or Christ? Should the Church represent what is going on in society, or should it represent what is going on in heaven where all are focused on God and His reign? The answer to me seems pretty obvious.
I personally do not believe cliques are necessarily a problem in any congregation, church, or community. It's how we organize, but it is my sincere hope that any clique that is within the congregation of St. John or any other congregation or denomination recognizes its vision and mission and works for the betterment of our congregation, denomination, and its fulfillment of the Christian mission in society.
I waited for further explanation.
"I've spoke to two people recently about coming to church. Both of them said the same thing. They both said they won't come to church because of the cliques in the church. Something needs to be done about that."
Perhaps so, but I am now a veteran when it comes to handling church dynamics. I've seen how more often than not, when you try to address something, the exact opposite happens. Harp on people for not coming to church, and church attendance drops. Harp on people for not giving enough or telling them to tithe 10% of their income, and offerings drop. Tell them they need to come to Sunday School, and they don't. Reverse psychology should be the order of the day, but if you go with the intent of trying to change things by doing the opposite, might you get figured out by doing that too? Isn't that a bit manipulative? Probably.
And that rightly leads to stagnation and a fear of even trying to address the issue. That's not good either.
So, the question is: how does one address the issue of cliques without trying to offer a mandate or tell everyone how they should act knowing they are liable to do the exact opposite?
Perhaps what follows is a feeble attempt:
I believe cliques are a part of the way the world and nature works. I think they are inescapable. I mean it. Kids form cliques in pre-school and school without any sort of guidance or compulsion. They just do it. In the animal kingdom, cliques are formed in most species. Fish swim in schools. Cattle gather in herds. Lions in prides, etc. etc. Each has its own hierarchy and social structure. Most become closed and only open up on special occasions.
These groups form for various reasons: protection, cooperation, feeding, and even socialization. In my estimation, this means cliques are neither good or bad, they just are.
Even in the church, we have our cliques. I think we'd like to pretend they don't exist, but they are there regardless. You have the women's group. The quilters. Men in mission. Youth group. Choir. Adult Bible study, and so on. These groups are organized based upon some commonality shared by all group members--gender, age, interest, ability. It's how we organize ourselves. Again, neither good or bad; cliques just are.
As I see it, the problem is not with cliques in and of themselves. It is when cliques become self-important, refuse to cooperate with others, and become closed that they become a problem.
St. Paul's analogy in 1 Corinthians 12 is instrumental in my opinion:
12 For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ. 13For in the one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves or free—and we were all made to drink of one Spirit. 14 Indeed, the body does not consist of one member but of many. 15If the foot were to say, ‘Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body’, that would not make it any less a part of the body. 16And if the ear were to say, ‘Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body’, that would not make it any less a part of the body. 17If the whole body were an eye, where would the hearing be? If the whole body were hearing, where would the sense of smell be? 18But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose. 19If all were a single member, where would the body be? 20As it is, there are many members, yet one body. 21The eye cannot say to the hand, ‘I have no need of you’, nor again the head to the feet, ‘I have no need of you.’ 22On the contrary, the members of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, 23and those members of the body that we think less honorable we clothe with greater honor, and our less respectable members are treated with greater respect; 24whereas our more respectable members do not need this. But God has so arranged the body, giving the greater honor to the inferior member, 25that there may be no dissension within the body, but the members may have the same care for one another. 26If one member suffers, all suffer together with it; if one member is honored, all rejoice together with it.
Paul does not encourage everyone to be alike. Far from it. In fact, Paul encourages the Church to honor it's differences, but with a very important caveat:
We are all one body.
Let that sink in for a moment. We are all one body. If various body parts begin warring against one another, really bad things happen. We actually know what that is called: cancer. With cancer, a group of cells thinks they are more important than the rest. They quit doing their job. They go rogue. They begin monopolizing resources. They begin feeding off the rest of the body. Eventually, if left unchecked, they kill the body.
In the Church, there is an antidote for such things--remembering who the head of the Church is and what He has called us to do. Remember, Paul is explicit in who he says the head of the Church is:
15 He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation; 16for in him all things in heaven and on earth were created, things visible and invisible, whether thrones or dominions or rulers or powers—all things have been created through him and for him. 17He himself is before all things, and in him all things hold together. 18He is the head of the body, the church; he is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, so that he might come to have first place in everything. --Colossians 1:15-18
To give this a very, local spin: St. John Lutheran Church of Cat Spring is actually ruled and governed by our head: Jesus Christ. We believe He has given us a vision and a mission: To Live God's Word Daily specifically by Actively reaching out as a strong Christian influence in our community by showing God's love through kindness, caring, and involvement with others inside and outside our community of faith.
All of our various parts theoretically should revolve around the Head and His instructions to us. Theoretically, everything we do should keep these things in mind. All of our various ministries and parts revolved around this vision and mission. If we should lose sight of this, then we face a war between the cliques. We face cliques vying for power and influence. Each clique's ministry becomes more important than the overall mission.
If you need evidence of this, look at our current political situation. Most representatives of our nation are there not to work for the good of their country, but for the good of their constituents. They are trying to get a piece of the pie for their district, their state, their area of representation instead of looking out for the good of the entire country. This leads to division and strife, something we are all too familiar with by reading our news papers and news feeds.
Should the Church reflect society or Christ? Should the Church represent what is going on in society, or should it represent what is going on in heaven where all are focused on God and His reign? The answer to me seems pretty obvious.
I personally do not believe cliques are necessarily a problem in any congregation, church, or community. It's how we organize, but it is my sincere hope that any clique that is within the congregation of St. John or any other congregation or denomination recognizes its vision and mission and works for the betterment of our congregation, denomination, and its fulfillment of the Christian mission in society.
Monday, June 10, 2013
"They Glorified God Because of Me"
Paul was no friend of the early church. He freely admits this. In fact, Paul admits that he violently persecuted the church. We have further witness of this from Luke’s account in the book of Acts when Luke tells us about the first martyr of the church, Stephen.
Stephen proclaimed the gospel, and he upset quite a few folks. Rather than backtrack on what he proclaimed, he pushed the envelope, and he was stoned. There was a young man who looked after the cloaks of those who were stoning Stephen, and that young man was named Saul, who would later become Paul. This same Saul had obtained permission to head to Damascus and arrest Christians there when an extraordinary event took place that changed his life, but more about that later.
Paul grew up as a Pharisee, and by his own account, he was a very good one. He was the modern day equivalent of the churchman who went to church every Sunday rain or shine; who gave 10% of his offering to the church; who went to Bible study on Sunday and Wednesday night; who contributed to every fund-raiser and who served on the church council. But I think perhaps it went even further than that because Paul calls himself blameless according to the law. This means, Paul ate the right foods, washed his hands at the right times, wore the right clothing, prayed at the right times and associated with the right people. The Jewish faith was not something Paul simply talked about and practiced when it suited him; no. The Jewish faith was something he lived to the nth degree.
Paul was so absorbed into the Jewish faith that it literally was his life. And he was not happy about anything that would threaten his beloved faith. When word started being spread that a group of people dared to say that Jesus of Nazareth was the Messiah who was raised from the dead, Paul knew this posed a threat. It was obvious to him this was a lie. The Jewish people were not free from their enemies. Rome still occupied Israel. God had not reestablished the Jewish monarchy as no descendant of David sat on the throne. And indeed, no one could be raised from the dead. Once a person was dead, that person was dead–no return from that state. Despite all the evidence, this movement was attracting followers. His fellow Jews were converting and becoming Christian, and this was troubling. How could people follow this lie? How could people desert the truth of the Jewish faith and say Jesus is the resurrected Lord and Messiah? It did not make sense to him. It was obviously false...and a threat. The movement had to be countered.
And Paul was all to happy to oblige. The same drive that made him work to perfection drove him to persecute the early church. He strove to find followers of Jesus and have them arrested. His zealous pursuit and defense of the Jewish faith won admirers in high places, so when Paul heard about the church taking root in Damascus, he asked for and received permission to persecute the church there. Armed with arrest warrants, he headed out.
And that is when his life was changed. In an instant. In the blink of an eye. A light appeared, and a voice spoke, “Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me?”
“Who are you?” Saul responded.
“I am Jesus whom you are persecuting.”
Paul had encountered the Living Lord, and it was a life-changing event. I spoke not to long ago how this event completely shattered his worldview and forced him to rethink everything he thought he knew. It turned Paul’s world upside down, and after all was said and done, he went from zealous persecutor of the Church to ardent missionary and proclaimer of the Gospel to the Gentiles.
Most agreed, the transformation was amazing. The one who persecuted the Church with zeal now became one of its strongest supporters and one of the most obsessed evangelists that ever existed. Paul says as much in our second lesson this morning as he recounts all of these episodes in his life.
He says, “20In what I am writing to you, before God, I do not lie! 21Then I went into the regions of Syria and Cilicia, 22and I was still unknown by sight to the churches of Judea that are in Christ; 23they only heard it said, ‘The one who formerly was persecuting us is now proclaiming the faith he once tried to destroy.’”
And then we come to a very fascinating statement in verse 24, “And they glorified God because of me.”
Think about that statement for just a minute. “They glorified God because of me.”
I began to wonder if I had heard such a statement in the entire time I’ve been serving as a pastor. I began thinking about all the thank you notes I have received. I began thinking about all the thank you notes I have seen published in church newsletters. I began thinking about all the correspondence I’ve received from other religious institutions and such. I began to think about all the comments I’ve received on my sermons and the comments I have given to others who have preached. And to the best of my recollection, I cannot ever think of hearing anything similar.
Usually, the things churches and pastors get say this or something similar:
Thank you for your words of comfort at the funeral.
Thank you for sending a donation to help us in our mission and ministry.
Thank you for officiating at our wedding and helping us enjoy our special day.
Thank you for helping our family out during this financial crisis.
Now, these words aren’t bad. There is nothing wrong with them, so if you are in the process of writing a thank you letter or what have you, please do not think that I am somehow slamming you. I’m not. But contrast these words with what Paul says:
They glorified God because of me.
While many people thank us, the early Christians were glorifying God because of Paul. This leads me to ask why are people focusing on us instead of giving God the glory?
I have to ask that question because I think it gets to the heart and soul of the purpose of the Church in society. I think it gets to the heart and soul of what our mission and our purpose as Christians is in this world in which we live.
Let me try to be as clear as possible without being too offensive: it is not the church’s job to call attention to itself. It is not the church’s job to simply do good things and get recognized for that. It is not the church’s job to get as many people to join as possible so that we can keep the lights on, the building air conditioned, run a few programs that keep kids entertained, hold a few fund raisers and benefits for those in need, and other such things. It is not a pastor’s job to work hard to get compliments on what he or she preaches or teaches or does at a funeral or wedding. Now, we certainly do all of those things, but this is not our primary purpose. It is not our primary job.
Please listen closely: our primary job is to introduce people to and point the way to the God who makes all of these things possible. Our primary job is to lift up the awesomeness of our God and what He did in taking on flesh, dwelling among us, and reconciling the world unto himself. It is our primary job to keep God as the focus, as the center, as that which our lives revolve around. We do not want people to see us! I know that may be hard to get your head around, but I assure you, I think it is absolutely true. We do not want people to see us; we want them to see God.
And so, we must ask ourselves: are people seeing us or are they seeing God? Are they thanking us or are they thanking God? Are others glorifying us or are they glorifying God? And if they are focusing on us instead of God, why is that the case?
Let us pray. Heavenly Father, the early church glorified you because of your work. Sometimes we get things backward today and strive to lift up ourselves instead of you. Give us the strength, courage, and desire to set ourselves aside so that others may see you and give glory to you because of us. Amen.
Stephen proclaimed the gospel, and he upset quite a few folks. Rather than backtrack on what he proclaimed, he pushed the envelope, and he was stoned. There was a young man who looked after the cloaks of those who were stoning Stephen, and that young man was named Saul, who would later become Paul. This same Saul had obtained permission to head to Damascus and arrest Christians there when an extraordinary event took place that changed his life, but more about that later.
Paul grew up as a Pharisee, and by his own account, he was a very good one. He was the modern day equivalent of the churchman who went to church every Sunday rain or shine; who gave 10% of his offering to the church; who went to Bible study on Sunday and Wednesday night; who contributed to every fund-raiser and who served on the church council. But I think perhaps it went even further than that because Paul calls himself blameless according to the law. This means, Paul ate the right foods, washed his hands at the right times, wore the right clothing, prayed at the right times and associated with the right people. The Jewish faith was not something Paul simply talked about and practiced when it suited him; no. The Jewish faith was something he lived to the nth degree.
Paul was so absorbed into the Jewish faith that it literally was his life. And he was not happy about anything that would threaten his beloved faith. When word started being spread that a group of people dared to say that Jesus of Nazareth was the Messiah who was raised from the dead, Paul knew this posed a threat. It was obvious to him this was a lie. The Jewish people were not free from their enemies. Rome still occupied Israel. God had not reestablished the Jewish monarchy as no descendant of David sat on the throne. And indeed, no one could be raised from the dead. Once a person was dead, that person was dead–no return from that state. Despite all the evidence, this movement was attracting followers. His fellow Jews were converting and becoming Christian, and this was troubling. How could people follow this lie? How could people desert the truth of the Jewish faith and say Jesus is the resurrected Lord and Messiah? It did not make sense to him. It was obviously false...and a threat. The movement had to be countered.
And Paul was all to happy to oblige. The same drive that made him work to perfection drove him to persecute the early church. He strove to find followers of Jesus and have them arrested. His zealous pursuit and defense of the Jewish faith won admirers in high places, so when Paul heard about the church taking root in Damascus, he asked for and received permission to persecute the church there. Armed with arrest warrants, he headed out.
And that is when his life was changed. In an instant. In the blink of an eye. A light appeared, and a voice spoke, “Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me?”
“Who are you?” Saul responded.
“I am Jesus whom you are persecuting.”
Paul had encountered the Living Lord, and it was a life-changing event. I spoke not to long ago how this event completely shattered his worldview and forced him to rethink everything he thought he knew. It turned Paul’s world upside down, and after all was said and done, he went from zealous persecutor of the Church to ardent missionary and proclaimer of the Gospel to the Gentiles.
Most agreed, the transformation was amazing. The one who persecuted the Church with zeal now became one of its strongest supporters and one of the most obsessed evangelists that ever existed. Paul says as much in our second lesson this morning as he recounts all of these episodes in his life.
He says, “20In what I am writing to you, before God, I do not lie! 21Then I went into the regions of Syria and Cilicia, 22and I was still unknown by sight to the churches of Judea that are in Christ; 23they only heard it said, ‘The one who formerly was persecuting us is now proclaiming the faith he once tried to destroy.’”
And then we come to a very fascinating statement in verse 24, “And they glorified God because of me.”
Think about that statement for just a minute. “They glorified God because of me.”
I began to wonder if I had heard such a statement in the entire time I’ve been serving as a pastor. I began thinking about all the thank you notes I have received. I began thinking about all the thank you notes I have seen published in church newsletters. I began thinking about all the correspondence I’ve received from other religious institutions and such. I began to think about all the comments I’ve received on my sermons and the comments I have given to others who have preached. And to the best of my recollection, I cannot ever think of hearing anything similar.
Usually, the things churches and pastors get say this or something similar:
Thank you for your words of comfort at the funeral.
Thank you for sending a donation to help us in our mission and ministry.
Thank you for officiating at our wedding and helping us enjoy our special day.
Thank you for helping our family out during this financial crisis.
Now, these words aren’t bad. There is nothing wrong with them, so if you are in the process of writing a thank you letter or what have you, please do not think that I am somehow slamming you. I’m not. But contrast these words with what Paul says:
They glorified God because of me.
While many people thank us, the early Christians were glorifying God because of Paul. This leads me to ask why are people focusing on us instead of giving God the glory?
I have to ask that question because I think it gets to the heart and soul of the purpose of the Church in society. I think it gets to the heart and soul of what our mission and our purpose as Christians is in this world in which we live.
Let me try to be as clear as possible without being too offensive: it is not the church’s job to call attention to itself. It is not the church’s job to simply do good things and get recognized for that. It is not the church’s job to get as many people to join as possible so that we can keep the lights on, the building air conditioned, run a few programs that keep kids entertained, hold a few fund raisers and benefits for those in need, and other such things. It is not a pastor’s job to work hard to get compliments on what he or she preaches or teaches or does at a funeral or wedding. Now, we certainly do all of those things, but this is not our primary purpose. It is not our primary job.
Please listen closely: our primary job is to introduce people to and point the way to the God who makes all of these things possible. Our primary job is to lift up the awesomeness of our God and what He did in taking on flesh, dwelling among us, and reconciling the world unto himself. It is our primary job to keep God as the focus, as the center, as that which our lives revolve around. We do not want people to see us! I know that may be hard to get your head around, but I assure you, I think it is absolutely true. We do not want people to see us; we want them to see God.
And so, we must ask ourselves: are people seeing us or are they seeing God? Are they thanking us or are they thanking God? Are others glorifying us or are they glorifying God? And if they are focusing on us instead of God, why is that the case?
Let us pray. Heavenly Father, the early church glorified you because of your work. Sometimes we get things backward today and strive to lift up ourselves instead of you. Give us the strength, courage, and desire to set ourselves aside so that others may see you and give glory to you because of us. Amen.
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